Judgement..

We all love shopping; specially, when we are buying clothes or accessories. And usually, we don’t decide the exact colour, pattern and all such things before shopping. But sometimes, it becomes a very difficult job to select a perfect piece among thousands kinds of pieces. Once we selected that perfect piece, another trouble comes which is to judge the nature of that piece whether it is useful till long term as human nature always interested in having non-perishable things. In such situation, ‘price tag’ is the only thing which is used as the best inspection tool while shopping and even no matter what you have previously examined. The most common thought comes in our mind while shopping is, “Agar to cheez mehengi hai to pakka badhiya hi hogi, sasti ho toh do din me hi bekaar ho jaegi”. But, what will happen, if the costlier one destroys within short period? Abusing the shopkeeper or the seller is the only thing, left after such incidence.

Let’s come back to our actual genre and sum up all above mentioned things to connect them with our life style.

Nowadays, every person has an infinite connectivity with different people. Some of them are very close ones and rests are just fellows or I can say ‘not close ones’. Now the question is, why we have such kind of division among the connectivity with people? Why, close ones are called so and rest are just fellows??

It seems very simple to answer. We categorised the people on the basis of our priorities, mutual trust and bonding. Those people, who are special for, who wins our trust, impressed us in first meeting and always available for help in any situation, become our close one instantly. And off course less impressive, less trustable people just becomes our fellows.

It is just a game of judgement. But it is not an easy task. During shopping, purchasing items has their price tags for inspection and additionally we can examine it by its’ nature or quality in front of our eyes so the judgement becomes easy. But what to do with reality or in the world of such infinite people? How to judge who is good for us or not?

Yes I agree, nobody could answer this complicated answer because we can’t judge anybody just on the basis of his/her attributes. Again it is a very tough job. I think the only solution is, being patient and give time to your connectivity or relation with that particular person.

 

And as I say always, it is up to us that how smartly we judge the people, because if any of your close one hurts you or start avoiding you, then maybe you will set a limit of connectivity with people or you could become introvert. So just keep this thing in mind...   

"KISI BHI INSAAN KI PEHCHAAN HAMESHA AP KE BURE WAQT MEIN HI HOTI HAI..

LEKIN ISKA MATLAB YE NAHI KI AAP APNA BURA WAQT AANE KA INTEZAAR KAREIN

SIRF EK MAUKA CHAHIYE AAZMAANE KE LIYE

AUR IS AAZMAISH MEIN YE NA BHOOLEIN KI

SAAMNE WALA BHI AP KI TARAH HI EK INSAAN HAI....! "