Be a "Self-comparable" human

Our endless desires, often leads to various problems. The reasons behind such desires are infinite but most of the time it occurs when a person expects to get something better than what he/she already has. We stick to this thought and start noticing the people around and their things as well.

Comparison comes here.

We encounter so many things and people on daily basis. As we are so obsessed with our habit of obtaining some more and better than what others has, so we compare every single thing with any other thing having same attributes or type. For instance, if I need to buy a pair of shoes and I get to know that the shoes I needed would costs Rs. 500 in a local shop of footwear and for the same shoes I will be paying Rs. 1500, if I purchase them from an expensive showroom. The shoes in both the places has the same design and quality but if I am regular participant in a group of a modern people or if I am having a part of classy friends then I would definitely prefer to buy the shoes from showroom (just because of the fact that my fellows always buy their outfits and footwear from a showroom) irrespective to how much I could afford. In such cases we never compromise.

This is, when we compare things but when we compare ourselves with other people, the problems surrounds us.

We adopt even lifestyles of others just to show them or to the society that ‘yes, we can also be better than other and even the best.

This happens just because of jealous, hatred or when we are seeking any personal gain.

But guys just think about it deeply. No doubt, competing with others is good but comparing too much can spoil you and what you have. You would never be able to discover what you can get with your own and comparing your life with any other person is nothing but insulting yourself. You are killing your abilities and desires just for a gain of ‘feeling better’. It is a wrong practice.

If you are so obsessed with comparison then compare your own things with each other. Compare your current lifestyle with the previous one. Comparing yourself with others would give you nothing but comparing yourself with you would give you something to know what you can do to be a better person.

So, friends take yourself out from the trap of excess comparing and be a better human being.

"KHUD KO ITNA QABIL BNAIYE KI 

KISI AUR SE 

TULNA KI ZAROORAT HI NA MEHSOOS HO"