Odd one "IN" !!

Every person has his/her own identity in society and why so? Very simple, just to let others know you because you are also a part of it. The same thing exists among family, friends and also the field in which you are working, along with society. And in all such atmospheres, everybody is different from each other. No matter, how much diverse we are but we all are considered as same living beings i.e. we are human beings. And being a human, we want people to consider us with our own personality. So, how to make a diverse identity? Is it very easy to create your own identity or create yourself?

Now, the people who have created their own, can understand the fact that it is not very easy to create your own identity among infinite people. But there are so many people who are struggling to create or refine themselves. In between, we have to face so many challenges which could seem like obstacles which could never get vanished. Obviously, these things, comes in our mind most of the time because at this stage, creating yourself is the only focus and nobody could afford failure.

In such process, you may find thousands of people struggling for the same thing in the same direction and they are actually the competitors and so as you for them. And when the competition comes, everybody gets more conscious and aware of others. But we can’t avoid such competition and our competitors as well because we can never learn better than what we learn among infinite people. In such competition, some competitors are either good or bad for us. No matter they are serious about their targets or not but being competitors they would never leave a chance to create obstacles for us or to spoil our reputation in front of others. Yes I agreed by the fact that, may be they could work or perform better or worse than us.

 

When our competitors becomes our obstacles, most of the time we start feeling out of place, start losing patience and confidence, even voluntarily start declaring unsuccessful, and through this we let them get more dominate over us. And ultimately we from such competition or field, we get ourselves out as odd one being totally ignorant about our goals. But do you really think, get rid from such mess is the only solution?

Obviously “no”!  you should feel like” why should I suffer?” instead “ODD ONE OUT.” As I said before nobody would leave a chance to make us feel demotivated or let us lost our consciousness towards our goals. The solution is

Just identify yourself first in your own eyes

Learn to face competition

Have patience and learn to survive in such competition

And then you will become a perfect identity in front of others

But don’t do the TIT for TAT things with your competitors. Even if you want to take revenge from them so just show your revenge in the form of excellence of your work and performance in the concerned field instead becoming obstacles for them because if you are with them, then don’t forget you are there because you are considered just like others and hence you have to exist like a competitor too.

So friends, let yourself “IN” and remeber....

"KAMAL KA PHOOL KICHHADH MEIN HI KHILTA HAI

LEKIN

KICHHADH BHARI DALDAL MEIN BHI USKI EK HI KHAAS JAGAH HOTI HAI

OR KICHHADH KITNA HI KYU NA HO

EK BAAR APNI JAGAH BANAANE KE BAAD,

 USKI KHUBSOORTI KAM NAHI HOTI"